I Can't

Honestly, I was having such a dilemma about going to Fiji with this guy.

I told him that I wanted separate rooms and that at some point I would want some alone time. I also told him that I understand those are unreasonable requests seeing as he's the one taking me on holiday.

He replied and told me that separate rooms was a given. But then he said that 4 days was too short for Fiji and he recommended going to Guam or Bali.

Well, that was an easy decision for me - no! I've been to both already and if I were to go again, it would be with friends. Those destinations are close and cheap to get to - Fiji costs a fortune and I can't imagine when I would be able to go by myself...or find anyone who was willing to pay that much to go with me.

When I told him I had already been to those destinations and didn't want to go again, he told me that we could go to Fiji....for 8 days!!!!

That made the decision even easier.

NO EFFING WAY.

I would never be able to handle him for 8 days. 4 days would be tolerable, because to be honest, you'd lose the first and last day in travel time and I know spending 2 days in Fiji is INSANE but at the end of the day, I'm not the one paying, I would still get to visit this gorgeous destination and I wouldn't have to spend a mammoth amount of time in his company.

But 8 days?

I just CAN'T.

I barely made it through a 2 hour dinner with him without getting drunk.

Plus, it really is insanely mean to use someone like that. I really am not that much of a bitch.

Seriously, I'm not.  

And I know I'll make it to Fiji or the French Polynesia one day. Bora Bora is my dream destination anyway! =)

So that's the end of that one! I'm not seeing him again.

xoxo